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Retire Early
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Retirement; like your parents, but way cooler
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In 1991 Billy and Akaisha Kaderli retired at the age
of 38. Now, into their 4th decade of this
financially independent lifestyle, they invite you
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You Are
Going to Die – What Can I Say to you?
My Intimate Journey with
Cancer Part 18
Billy and Akaisha Kaderli
When you are in a situation
such as mine (supposedly racing towards death) people want to say something
helpful and supportive. It’s my opinion that they are unknowingly locking you
into their belief system without knowing it. That is “natural and normal” as we
see through our own perspective.
But what if there were more
choices?
Below I have written my
approach on this, and I hope you find it expansive.
Ok, here we go.
I have been noticing that I
want to stay in the "I don't know, let's not define it too much" place... (the
zero point field?) in order to allow "all the components of my situation" to
regroup, -- or whatever it is they might want to do -- for my highest good.
I don't want to "bring my
past into my future" by allowing people to define me or my journey in a way that
they understand, but which doesn't serve me.
Example: A dear family member
said to me the other day "How can I be encouraging to you when I know you aren't
going to get any better?"
This left me surprised and
shocked at the viewpoint she held... She already had me in a box and it was a
done deal.
Sure, I might die at the end
of this experience, but I see ALL KINDS OF PATHWAYS for me to "get better"...
This showed me the radical
differences in the mindsets we hold.
Death is not a bad thing we
are all going to do it. What if this journey allows me to let go of all sorts of
garbage from my previous programming, my childhood, my resentments and things I
have not fully forgiven?
What if I gain a Heart like
Jesus or His Clarity of Mind to "finish" my time here?
What if I were to realize the
Light that I Am and began radiating that LIGHT outwards to all who are in my
company?
What if I came to spiritual
understandings that I could not realize before because my veil between the two
worlds has now gotten thinner and thinner?
What if I brought joy and
laughter into a situation where people did not expect it and because of that,
people's outlooks changed and healed? I find that idea to be radical and
life-changing.
What if... What if... What
if...
What if we didn’t limit
ourselves to what others have defined for us? What if we turned the whole ball
of wax on its head and shook mankind just enough to cause a mental seismic
shift?
Would you be ready for that?
Death? The End or Beginning?
For more information, pricing and perspectives on my Stage Three
Breast Cancer journey, click
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Retire
Early Lifestyle appeals to a different
kind of person – the person who prizes their
independence, values their time, and who doesn’t
want to mindlessly follow the crowd.
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